[Genetic counselling in pediatrics (author's transl)].

Basis knowledge of genetics is necessary for the pediatrician, but he also must be experienced in talking with grieving parents. Grief reactions should be facilitated and by this help to the parents the best basis for future genetic counselling is established. The clinical diagnosis is a prerequisite for genetic counselling. Parents seeking help must be prepared to find their own decision. If the counsellor makes typical mistakes he provokes more disappointment than relief. If he succeeds his help can preserve or encourage future lives.